PT  - JOURNAL ARTICLE
AU  - E. Prochazkova
AU  - E. E. Sjak-Shie
AU  - F. Behrens
AU  - D. Lindh
AU  - M. E. Kret
TI  - The choreography of human attraction: physiological synchrony in a blind date setting
AID  - 10.1101/748707
DP  - 2019 Jan 01
TA  - bioRxiv
PG  - 748707
4099  - http://biorxiv.org/content/early/2019/11/22/748707.short
4100  - http://biorxiv.org/content/early/2019/11/22/748707.full
AB  - Humans are social animals whose mental wellbeing is shaped by the ability to attract and connect with each other. In a dating world, in which success can be determined by brief interactions, apart from physical features, there is a whole choreography of movements, physical reactions and subtle expressions that drive humans’ sexual attraction. To determine what drives attraction, we measured nonverbal dynamics between people during real-life interactions outside the laboratory, where dating is most relevant. Participants wore eye-tracking glasses with embedded cameras, and devices to measure physiological signals including heart rate and skin conductance. Crucially, visible signals that can be controlled, such as facial expressions or gaze, did not predict attraction. Instead, attraction was predicted by synchrony in heart rate and skin conductance between partners, which are unconscious and difficult to regulate. Our findings suggest that shared emotionality is vital for mutual attraction. Moreover, physiological synchrony may provide a medium for translating visible expressions into embodied emotions, which can turn into intentions via somatosensory simulation.Significance Statement In our modern world where millions of people meet online without interacting face-to-face, the question “what defines attraction” has become very relevant. In this study, we used modern technologies to lay down a foundation for the processes that drive human attraction during real-life interactions. Contrary to common belief, we found that attraction is not predicted by a frequency of expression or eye fixation duration, nor is linearly related to the participant’s autonomic nervous system activity. Importantly, we found that the more a participant synchronized their heart rate and skin conductance with their partner, the more they felt attracted toward that person. This study reveals a fundamental physiological process that plays a role in the formation of romantic relations.